E foarte important s\u0103 ne iubim \u0163ara. \u015ei e inutil, nu s\u0103 critic\u0103m onest, ci s\u0103 vedem la tot pasul gre\u015feli \u015fi defecte, s\u0103 ironiz\u0103m, s\u0103 blam\u0103m sau s\u0103 incrimin\u0103m excesiv, p\u00e2n\u0103 la intoxicare, situa\u0163ia economic\u0103, politic\u0103, social\u0103 \u015fi cultural\u0103 a \u0163\u0103rii, deoarece astfel nu facem dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne sub\u0163iem seva \u015fi poten\u0163ialul energetic, afectiv, deturn\u00e2ndu-l \u00eenspre o agresivitate subteran\u0103, de tip pasiv, at\u00e2t de frecvent\u0103 \u00een spa\u0163iul nostru rom\u00e2nesc, \u00een care cuvintele, vorbele, \u201ereplicile\u201d, argumenta\u0163iile, explica\u0163iile, retoricile \u0163\u00e2\u015fnesc cu at\u00e2t mai veninos, mai voluptuos \u015fi mai infla\u0163ionist cu c\u00e2t sufer\u0103 de o lips\u0103, de o acoperire sau de o traducere \u00een ac\u0163iune, fapt\u0103, atitudine.<\/p>\n
S\u0103 nu uit\u0103m c\u0103 \u00een democra\u0163ia noastr\u0103 recent\u0103, nematurat\u0103 \u015fi nepatinat\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 de timp, lucrurile nu se pot schimba peste noapte, sedimentarea, asimilarea valorilor \u015fi a tradi\u0163iilor cer\u00e2nd timp \u015fi r\u0103bdare. Ceea ce nu \u00een\u0163elegem este c\u0103 nu putem fi \u00eenving\u0103tori c\u00e2t\u0103 vreme vedem \u015fi c\u0103ut\u0103m, cu o satisfac\u0163ie aproape morbid\u0103, doar neajunsurile, lipsurile, minusurile, fisurile \u015fi p\u0103r\u0163ile slabe. \u015ei nu putem fi \u00eenving\u0103tori, deoarece acest tip de g\u00e2ndire sau de mentalitate negativ\u0103, specific\u0103 voin\u0163elor lene\u015fe, slabe, se bazeaz\u0103 pe resentiment, adic\u0103 pe frustrare, pe incapacitatea de transformare pozitiv\u0103 a datelor realit\u0103\u0163ii.
\nE inadmisibil \u015fi lipsit de coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103 s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti at\u00e2t de ur\u00e2t, de ironic sau de zeflemitor despre \u0163ara ta, despre oamenii ei \u015fi este \u015fi mai inadmisibil s\u0103 \u201evinzi\u201c aceast\u0103 imagine proast\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. Mass-media, ca formatoare a opiniei publice, aduce, a\u015fa cum se \u015ftie, un grav prejudiciu prin intoxicarea continu\u0103 cu informa\u0163ii negative \u015fi de scandal, menite a ne orienta sau \u201edesc\u0103rca\u201c adrenalina doar spre\u00a0 rudimentar \u015fi primitiv. Ar fi interesant de f\u0103cut, \u00een acest sens, un experiment la scar\u0103 na\u0163ional\u0103, \u00een care o perioad\u0103 de timp, fie ea c\u00e2t de scurt\u0103, fie ea chiar de o zi, mass-media s\u0103 nu mai difuzeze\/ promoveze nimic r\u0103u, negativ \u015fi otr\u0103vitor, pentru a ne putea deprinde cu gustul \u015fi exerci\u0163iul binelui, ca \u015fi pentru a \u00eencepe s\u0103 ne \u00eencuraj\u0103m calit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi s\u0103 ne pre\u0163uim cu adev\u0103rat. Acea zi ar putea deveni o real\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toare na\u0163ional\u0103.
\nE bine s\u0103 ne vedem micile sau marile defecte, dar nu e bine s\u0103 le d\u0103m at\u00e2t de mult\u0103 importan\u0163\u0103. A da prea mult\u0103 importan\u0163\u0103 defectelor, \u00eenseamn\u0103 a le ad\u00e2nci, adic\u0103 a crea incon\u015ftient toate condi\u0163iile pentru propagarea lor. Astfel, oamenii se vor molipsi \u015fi vor r\u0103spunde \u00een sensul presupozi\u0163iei \u201enegative\u201d, teoria fiind, aparent, confirmat\u0103 de experien\u0163\u0103. E binecunoscut faptul c\u0103 dac\u0103 cineva descrie pe altcineva drept un \u201einamic\u201c \u00eempotriva c\u0103ruia trebuie s\u0103 lupte \u015fi s\u0103 se apere, acel cineva va r\u0103spunde asem\u0103n\u0103tor, \u201eteoria\u201c fiind, aparent, confirmat\u0103 de experien\u0163\u0103. Ceea ce ignor\u0103m \u00een acest caz e faptul c\u0103 \u00eens\u0103\u015fi modul nostru de a privi sau de a g\u00e2ndi (negativ) a produs acea stare de fapt ce pare a avea apoi o realitate independent\u0103 \u015fi de sine st\u0103t\u0103toare.
\nSuntem exact cine vrem s\u0103 fim, \u00een sensul c\u0103 noi ne construim realitatea \u00een care vrem s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Dac\u0103 ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat o schimbare de mentalitate, nu trebuie s\u0103 a\u015ftept\u0103m ca ea s\u0103 vin\u0103 de la al\u0163ii sau de sus. Schimbarea trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 cu noi \u00een\u015fine, deoarece numai a\u015fa e posibil ca ea s\u0103 se propage sau s\u0103 se produc\u0103 \u015fi \u00een ceilal\u0163i. Fiecare e responsabil s\u0103 se debaraseze de mentalitatea negativ\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 vad\u0103 nu doar reactiv, retrospectiv, resentimentar, ci \u015fi \u00een perspectiv\u0103, aidoma acelui vers dintr-un frumos c\u00e2ntec rom\u00e2nesc \u2013 \u201e\u015fi eu… spre Soare mergeam\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
E foarte important s\u0103 ne iubim \u0163ara. \u015ei e inutil, nu s\u0103 critic\u0103m onest, ci s\u0103 vedem la tot pasul gre\u015feli \u015fi defecte, s\u0103 ironiz\u0103m, s\u0103 blam\u0103m sau s\u0103 incrimin\u0103m excesiv, p\u00e2n\u0103 la intoxicare, situa\u0163ia economic\u0103, politic\u0103, social\u0103 \u015fi cultural\u0103 a \u0163\u0103rii, deoarece astfel nu facem dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne sub\u0163iem seva \u015fi poten\u0163ialul energetic, afectiv,… Cite\u0219te mai mult »Mentalitate<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[11237],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cultura-societate"],"views":1337,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23701","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23701"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23702,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23701\/revisions\/23702"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}