A f\u0103cut cum ar face oricare dintre bunici. Mi-a strecurat vreo doi b\u0103nu\u0163i \u00een palm\u0103, mi-a spus ce \u015fi c\u00e2t s\u0103 iau \u015fi apoi m-a l\u0103sat la coad\u0103 la p\u00e2ine. C\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors, peste vreo zece minute, m-a g\u0103sit tot acolo, doar c\u0103 aveam ceva mai multe persoane \u00een fa\u0163\u0103. \u00cen drum spre cas\u0103, m-a chestionat. De ce durase at\u00e2t? De ce m-a l\u0103sat cu trei persoane \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 \u015fi m-a g\u0103sit cu cinci? \u201eP\u0103i n-ai spus tu c\u0103 polite\u0163ea m\u0103 oblig\u0103 totdeauna s\u0103-l las pe cel mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 s\u0103 treac\u0103 \u00eenaintea mea?\u201c \u015ei la cinci ani toat\u0103 coada fusese mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. Familia s-a distrat copios de logica mea imbatabil\u0103. Mai ales la c\u00e2t de amuzant \u015ftia bunic\u0103-mea s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103. \u00cen ciuda s\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii firave, avea o fire vesel\u0103. Ironic\u0103, dar lipsit\u0103 de r\u0103utate. Dac\u0103 \u015fi-ar pune \u00een cap, ar face \u015fi mor\u0163ii s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103, spuneau ceilal\u0163i. Acum nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 tocmai ea era \u00een drept s\u0103 se distreze. Pe c\u00e2t de sprin\u0163ar\u0103 \u015fi plin\u0103 de umor, tratat\u0103 cu ostilitate, devenea complet neputincioas\u0103. O fire cu totul neconcuren\u0163ial\u0103, prad\u0103 inofensiv\u0103 pentru \u015fmecheria oricui. Ce s\u0103 zic, am avut pe cine mo\u015fteni!
\nCunosc multe doamne de factura aceasta. Debordeaz\u0103 de bun-sim\u0163. Sunt culte \u015fi sensibile, cu un fair-play \u00eenn\u0103scut. Nu constituie un obstacol pentru nimeni. Deloc competitive, nu urzesc niciodat\u0103 nimic pe ascuns. Au principii \u015fi un set de valori bine precizat, printre care \u201etr\u0103ie\u015fte \u015fi las\u0103-l \u015fi pe cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103\u201c. Delicate\u0163ea le \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi ofenseze semenii. Totdeauna \u00eei las\u0103 s\u0103 treac\u0103 pe cei ce se bag\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103, indiferent dac\u0103 sunt mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 sau nu. \u015ei, bine\u00een\u0163eles, p\u00e2inea lor se las\u0103 a\u015fteptat\u0103. Mult \u015fi bine! A\u015fa c\u0103 problemele apar la \u201etr\u0103ie\u015fte \u015fi tu\u201c, mai ales c\u0103 societatea nu pare \u201epreg\u0103tit\u0103\u201c pentru asemenea exemplare. Experien\u0163a funebr\u0103 din ultimele dou\u0103 luni, cu colega mea Cornelia Maria Savu \u015fi fosta mea coleg\u0103 Anca Rotescu, o dovede\u015fte cu v\u00e2rf \u015fi \u00eendesat. Am\u00e2ndou\u0103 fine, inteligente, prea demne ca s\u0103 cear\u0103 ajutor. Am\u00e2ndou\u0103 plecate pe lumea cealalt\u0103 din cauza s\u0103r\u0103ciei. Am\u00e2ndou\u0103 sting\u00e2ndu-se singure \u015fi chinuite.
\nTo\u0163i cei ce au evocat-o pe Anca Rotescu au men\u0163ionat bunul ei sim\u0163. \u015ei faptul c\u0103 era o doamn\u0103. Solidar\u0103 cu multe proiecte, Anca a tradus multe piese \u015fi a scris sute de cronici. Suntem intriga\u0163i de sistemul care de la un moment \u00eencolo nu le-a mai dat colegelor noastre nici o \u015fans\u0103. Dar nimeni nu pomene\u015fte de solidaritate. De ceea ce ar fi trebuit s\u0103 facem noi, ceilal\u0163i, pentru ele. E trist c\u0103 ace\u015fti oameni, la a c\u0103ror inteligen\u0163\u0103 specia a lucrat mult, au sucombat \u00een condi\u0163ii mizerabile. Dar poate \u015fi mai trist este c\u0103 nu au avut \u00eencredere \u00een noi, ceilal\u0163i, ca s\u0103 cear\u0103 o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor. Ne vine u\u015for s\u0103 ne disculp\u0103m: n-am \u015ftiut, au refuzat s\u0103 ne cear\u0103\/primeasc\u0103 ajutorul. Ne pl\u00e2ngem, \u00een schimb, c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 solidaritate de breasl\u0103. P\u0103i, cum s\u0103 existe c\u00e2nd ne \u015funt\u0103m care-ncotro? Cum s\u0103 aib\u0103 curajul ni\u015fte doamne structural delicate s\u0103-\u015fi devoaleze neajunsurile? Ca s\u0103 devin\u0103 subiectul s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nii pentru gurile pofticioase de b\u00e2rf\u0103? Suntem consterna\u0163i c\u00e2nd auzim asemenea ve\u015fti dureroase \u015fi d\u0103m vina pe sistem. Unul \u00een care c\u00e2\u0163iva se \u00eembuib\u0103 (chiar \u015fi \u00een teatru), iar al\u0163ii mor literalmente de foame. Dar nu ne-am g\u00e2ndit ca din c\u00e2\u015ftigurile noastre mai mult dec\u00e2t modeste s\u0103 d\u0103m \u00een fiecare lun\u0103 c\u00e2te un b\u0103nu\u0163 prin care s\u0103 ne ajut\u0103m la nevoie. Poate c\u0103 n-ar fi r\u0103u ca micu\u0163a noastr\u0103 breasl\u0103, cea a criticilor, care \u00ee\u015fi irosesc via\u0163a \u00een eforturi ce par s\u0103 nu trebuiasc\u0103 nim\u0103nui, s\u0103 se \u00eengrijeasc\u0103 de un fond de ajutor acordat \u2013 indiferent de rela\u0163iile cvasi-\u00eenghe\u0163ate dintre noi \u2013, oricui traverseaz\u0103 o perioad\u0103 mai grea.
\nApropo, dac\u0103 Doamne fere\u015fte, a\u0163i tr\u0103i vremuri grele, la care dintre colegi v-a\u0163i duce s\u0103 cere\u0163i ajutor? Ave\u0163i un nume? Dac\u00e3 da, sunte\u0163i printre pu\u0163inii noroco\u015fi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A f\u0103cut cum ar face oricare dintre bunici. Mi-a strecurat vreo doi b\u0103nu\u0163i \u00een palm\u0103, mi-a spus ce \u015fi c\u00e2t s\u0103 iau \u015fi apoi m-a l\u0103sat la coad\u0103 la p\u00e2ine. C\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors, peste vreo zece minute, m-a g\u0103sit tot acolo, doar c\u0103 aveam ceva mai multe persoane \u00een fa\u0163\u0103. \u00cen drum spre cas\u0103, m-a… Cite\u0219te mai mult »Singur \u015fi uitat de lume<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[66],"tags":[13280,76],"class_list":["post-22103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-arte-media","tag-anca-rotescu","tag-cornelia-maria-savu"],"views":2179,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22103"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22103\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}