{"id":17973,"date":"2014-03-13T10:30:59","date_gmt":"2014-03-13T08:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/?p=17973"},"modified":"2014-03-13T10:30:59","modified_gmt":"2014-03-13T08:30:59","slug":"doliul-la-telefonul-mobil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/doliul-la-telefonul-mobil\/","title":{"rendered":"Doliul, la telefonul mobil"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E vremea s\u0103rb\u0103toririi prim\u0103verii, a M\u0103r\u0163i\u015forului \u015fi a Zilei Femeii. \u00cen toat\u0103 dispora, comunit\u0103\u0163ile dau \u00een clocot. Copiii rom\u00e2nilor \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 poezii, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 dansuri populare. \u201eCiob\u0103na\u015f cu trei turme de oi\u201d. Cu asemenea prilejuri ne dovedim identitatea, ne dovedim patriotismul. Chiar dac\u0103 de la mii de kilometri.<\/strong><br \/>\nCiudat este \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 aceste manifest\u0103ri m\u0103 pun totdeauna pe g\u00e2nduri. Apar\u0163inem unei comunit\u0103\u0163i, una f\u0103r\u0103 grani\u0163e, cea a rom\u00e2nilor pleca\u0163i c\u00e2t e globul de mare. \u015ei ne e dor de cas\u0103. S\u0103 nu-mi spun\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 nimeni c\u0103 acest dor ne este trezit de repertoriul serb\u0103rilor organizate \u00een diaspor\u0103. S\u0103 nu-mi spun\u0103 nimeni c\u0103 m\u0103 simt rom\u00e2n din aceast\u0103 pricin\u0103. Ciob\u0103na\u015fi am mai v\u0103zut \u015fi pe la al\u0163ii. Dac\u0103 au trei turme de oi sau mai multe, n-am stat s\u0103 num\u0103r. De asemenea, s\u0103 nu-mi spun\u0103 nimeni c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd ni se face dor, ne aducem aminte de \u201efrumuse\u0163ile patriei\u201d, de mun\u0163ii \u201eno\u015ftri\u201d, de apele \u201enoastre\u201d. Mun\u0163i au \u015fi al\u0163ii, ape, de asemenea.<br \/>\nCred c\u0103 ce ne mai \u0163ine la un loc sunt amintirile de via\u0163\u0103 comunitar\u0103. Pe vremea dinaintea emigr\u0103rii, tr\u0103iam evenimentele vie\u0163ii \u00eempreun\u0103, eram lega\u0163i de aceste evenimente anume. Nu ni se face dor de ciob\u0103na\u015fi, nu ni se face dor de peisaje. Ni se face dor de vremea c\u00e2nd familia se unea \u00een jurul copilului care se \u00eensoar\u0103 sau se m\u0103rit\u0103, a femeii din neam care na\u015fte, a p\u0103rintelui care moare. Eram \u201eacas\u0103\u201d atunci c\u00e2nd se aduna tot satul sau se mobilizau to\u0163i prietenii \u00een jurul evenimentelor majore dintr-o existen\u0163\u0103 de om. Eram \u201eacas\u0103\u201d acolo unde \u00eei puteam asculta pe b\u0103tr\u00e2nii no\u015ftri povestind despre b\u0103tr\u00e2nii lor. Acum \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nim prin locuri pe unde nu ne-a \u015ftiut nimeni tineri. Umbl\u0103m prin lume \u015fi suntem amputa\u0163i de partea din noi a celui care am fost alt\u0103dat\u0103. Un b\u0103tr\u00e2n pe care nu l-a cunoscut nimeni t\u00e2n\u0103r e f\u0103r\u0103 biografie. O femeie al c\u0103rei prunc nu mai e m\u00e2ndria unui \u00eentreg clan e ca \u015fi c\u00e2nd n-ar fi mam\u0103.<br \/>\nFemeile emigra\u0163iei nasc \u015fi-\u015fi anun\u0163\u0103 na\u015fterea la telefonul mobil.\u00a0 Ea munce\u015fte \u00een Roma, b\u0103rbatul \u00een Anglia. S-au \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00een var\u0103, \u00eentr-un concediu. \u015ei-au conceput un copil. \u201eIonic\u0103, ai o fat\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i tr\u0103iasc\u0103!\u201d. \u201eCum? Nu te aud!\u201d. \u201eNu mai am impulsuri\u2026E fat\u0103\u201d.<br \/>\nBunicii nu-\u015fi v\u0103d nepo\u0163ii cu anii. \u015ei dac\u0103-i v\u0103d, tot degeaba. Se uit\u0103 unii la al\u0163ii zg\u00e2i\u0163i, nu pot s\u0103-\u015fi vorbeasc\u0103, nu au o limb\u0103 comun\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e cei mici s\u0103 rup\u0103 c\u00e2teva cuvinte \u00een limba celor din sat, s-a sf\u00e2r\u015fit concediul. De legat, nu-i mai leag\u0103 nimic. \u201eA\u015f fi vrut s\u0103 le povestesc ai cui suntem, \u00eemi poveste\u015fte o bunic\u0103 \u2013 cum de avem noi porecla asta, cine au fost buneii buneilor lor. P\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e ei rom\u00e2ne\u015fte\u2026 m\u0103 ia Dumnezeu\u201d.<br \/>\nCel mai trist moment este \u00eens\u0103 desigur cel al anun\u0163\u0103rii mor\u0163ii la telefonul mobil. Povestea cu \u0163inutul lum\u00e2n\u0103rii de c\u0103tre cei mai apropia\u0163i din familie ne lega unii de al\u0163ii ca o fr\u00e2nghie cu noduri imposibil de desf\u0103cut. \u015ei cel care a reu\u015fit, \u00een emigra\u0163ie fiind, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 acas\u0103 pentru a-i prinde ultima suflare \u015fi a-i \u00eenchide ochii mamei sau tat\u0103lui lui cred c\u0103 se num\u0103r\u0103 printre boga\u0163ii \u015fi privilegia\u0163ii condi\u0163iei lui. Acele momente anume ne trezesc nostalgii. Acolo \u015fi-n acele clipe ne-am l\u0103sat \u201ecasa\u201d.<br \/>\nDe la o zi la alta, v\u0103d \u00een \u0163ara \u00een care tr\u0103iesc c\u00e2te un cona\u0163ional cu fa\u0163a p\u0103m\u00e2ntie, neb\u0103rbierit, cu ochii \u00een fundul capului. \u201eCe-ai p\u0103\u0163it, Vasile?\u201d. \u201eMi-a murit mama\u201d. \u201eCum, c\u00e2nd ai aflat?\u201d. \u201eM-a sunat fratele din Madrid, la telefonul mobil, l-a sunat \u015fi pe el o cumnat\u0103\u201d. Omul ar fi vrut s\u0103 plece, s\u0103 fie de fa\u0163\u0103 la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare. Dar ma\u015finile cu care ajunge el \u00een sat fac trei zile pe drum. \u015ei au curse doar de dou\u0103 ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. A\u015fa c\u0103 oricum ar face\u2026 \u201eEh, o prime\u015fte p\u0103m\u00e2ntul \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 mine, suspin\u0103 Vasile. Le-a dat frate-meu ni\u015fte bani. O s\u0103-i sun \u015fi eu mar\u0163i, c\u00e2nd o \u00eengroap\u0103. Am g\u0103sit o cartel\u0103 cu care po\u0163i vorbi o jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 cu 5 euro\u201d.<br \/>\nVom serba \u015fi noi, organizat, \u00een comunit\u0103\u0163ile c\u0103rora le apar\u0163inem \u00een diaspor\u0103, Ziua Femeii. \u015ei Ziua Mamei. Vom c\u00e2nta \u201eciob\u0103na\u015f cu trei turme de oi\u201d. \u015ei copiii no\u015ftri vor dansa hora. Dovedind astfel c\u0103 ne p\u0103str\u0103m identitatea. \u015ei d\u00e2ndu-le celor \u00eens\u0103rcina\u0163i cu aceast\u0103 p\u0103strare dreptul\u00a0 de-a mai \u201ebifa\u201d. \u00cen documente, o asemenea b\u00e2lb\u00e2ial\u0103 poart\u0103, nu \u015ftiu din ce pricin\u0103, numele de \u201eac\u0163iune\u201d. Adic\u0103, vezi Doamne, nu st\u0103m cu m\u00e2inile-n s\u00e2n. Ac\u0163ion\u0103m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E vremea s\u0103rb\u0103toririi prim\u0103verii, a M\u0103r\u0163i\u015forului \u015fi a Zilei Femeii. \u00cen toat\u0103 dispora, comunit\u0103\u0163ile dau \u00een clocot. Copiii rom\u00e2nilor \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 poezii, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 dansuri populare. \u201eCiob\u0103na\u015f cu trei turme de oi\u201d. Cu asemenea prilejuri ne dovedim identitatea, ne dovedim patriotismul. Chiar dac\u0103 de la mii de kilometri. Ciudat este \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 aceste manifest\u0103ri m\u0103 pun totdeauna&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/doliul-la-telefonul-mobil\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Cite\u0219te mai mult &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Doliul, la telefonul mobil<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[7249,2434],"class_list":["post-17973","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mozaic","tag-romani-din-diaspora","tag-romani-emigranti"],"views":1174,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17973","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17973"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17973\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17973"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17973"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistacultura.ro\/nou\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17973"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}